Chapter 1 -  Chemistry, Connections, and Communications

Chapter 2 - The Challenge Of Accepting Reality 

Chapter 3 - Challenging Your "Shoulds" And "Musts" 

Chapter 4 - Seven Specific Guidelines for Great Relationships 

Chapter 5 - Guideline 1: Accept Your Partner "As Is"

Chapter 6 - Guideline 2: Express Appreciation Frequently

Chapter 7- Guideline 3: Communicate from Integrity 

Chapter 8 - Guideline 4: Share and Explore Differences with Your Partner 

Chapter 9 - Guideline 5: Support Your Partner's Goals

Chapter 10 - Guideline 6: Give Your Partner The Right To Be Wrong 

Chapter 11 - Guideline 7: Reconsider Your Wants as Goals 

Chapter 12 - Using Commitment To Accomplish Your Goals 

Chapter 13 - Making The Seven Guidelines Work for You 

Selected References